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Most adult children of toxic parents grow up feeling tremendous confusion about what love means and how it’s supposed to feel. Their parents did extremely unloving things to them in the name of love. They came to understand love as something chaotic, dramatic, confusing, and often painful—something they had to give up their own dreams and desires for. Obviously, that’s not what love is all about.
Loving behavior doesn’t grind you down, keep you off balance, or create feelings of self-hatred. Love doesn’t hurt, it feels good. Loving behavior nourishes your emotional well-being. When someone is being loving to you, you feel accepted, cared for, valued, and respected. Genuine love creates feelings of warmth, pleasure, safety, stability, and inner peace.
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If you aren’t seeing someone who reads you fairytales when your sick, you’re doing something wrong.
Having the flu sucks because all I’ve done all day is sleep and reflect on all the ways I’ve screwed up lately. And that’s a long list.
Glad to know I’m not the only one who wears bikeshorts under dresses!
The How to Train Your Dragons sequel was better than I could have anticipated, definitely go see it if you haven’t already!
Does anyone know anything about the National Society of Collegiate Scholars (NSCS)?
I got invited to join them, and it sounds like there are some plausible benefits, but with a $95 membership fee and maybe some possible later commitments, I just was wondering if anyone had any insider advice.
Anybody know what this is from because all I’m getting are blogs when I search it. And I would really like to know! ;o;
“An art degree is not what I need, I’ll just minor in art.”
“But look at all these really cool art classes you could take!”